Can any dowry be Sufficient?Education and degrees of daughters are the dowries for life.This society now wants police to act fast, are they not equally guilty of making fun of educated women,treating even lady doctors in hospitals with contempt,because sometimes they have to carry out abortions,besides conducting difficult deliveries, same society that puts a tag on the educated teacher in schools and pressurises her in various ways. Daughters are precious, treat all daughters as if they are your own,they may be a blessing in disguise,as the households will be blessed by the higher powers,if daughters are given care,respect and human dues from day 1. Stop Dowry,both giving and taking,Stop luring boys of other mothers with money of dowry , Stop displaying daughters in Society,when they are of a marriageable age.
help people anyway.
As I passed the billing counter, an imposing rogue with a group stopped me. “Sir, the bill is too high, do something”. It was an open threat worded technically as a request. The relatives who folded hands to save the patient till yesterday were standing behind that rogue, looking unconcerned, not even happy that the patient was alive and being discharged after a life threatening illness. I sent them to the charity cell.
ignore stress
As I passed the billing counter, an imposing rogue with a group stopped me. “Sir, the bill is too high, do something”. It was an open threat worded technically as a request. The relatives who folded hands to save the patient till yesterday were standing behind that rogue, looking unconcerned, not even happy that the patient was alive and being discharged after a life threatening illness. I sent them to the charity cell.
ignore stress…
As I passed the billing counter, an imposing rogue with a group stopped me. “Sir, the bill is too high, do something”. It was an open threat worded technically as a request. The relatives who folded hands to save the patient till yesterday were standing behind that rogue, looking unconcerned, not even happy that the patient was alive and being discharged after a life threatening illness. I sent them to the charity cell.
ignore stress
I had had a terrible argument with family that morning, and had left home without a breakfast, thinking that I will catch up in the canteen if hungry. The traffic on the way was as usual bad, it further worsened my mood. Messages kept pouring in: pending bills and health enquiries that were an attempt to avoid a proper consultation. One can ignore, but sometimes ignoring is stressful too!© Dr. Rajas Deshpande
I had had a terrible argument with family that morning, and had left home without a breakfast, thinking that I will catch up in the canteen if hungry. The traffic on the way was as usual bad, it further worsened my mood. Messages kept pouring in: pending bills and health enquiries that were an attempt to avoid a proper consultation. One can ignore, but sometimes ignoring is stressful too!© Dr. Rajas Deshpande
I had had a terrible argument with family that morning, and had left home without a breakfast, thinking that I will catch up in the canteen if hungry. The traffic on the way was as usual bad, it further worsened my mood. Messages kept pouring in: pending bills and health enquiries that were an attempt to avoid a proper consultation. One can ignore, but sometimes ignoring is stressful too!© Dr. Rajas Deshpande
I had had a terrible argument with family that morning, and had left home without a breakfast, thinking that I will catch up in the canteen if hungry. The traffic on the way was as usual bad, it further worsened my mood. Messages kept pouring in: pending bills and health enquiries that were an attempt to avoid a proper consultation. One can ignore, but sometimes ignoring is stressful too!© Dr. Rajas Deshpande
I had had a terrible argument with family that morning, and had left home without a breakfast, thinking that I will catch up in the canteen if hungry. The traffic on the way was as usual bad, it further worsened my mood. Messages kept pouring in: pending bills and health enquiries that were an attempt to avoid a proper consultation. One can ignore, but sometimes ignoring is stressful too!© Dr. Rajas Deshpande
For the Girl to get admission at AIIMS is a big deal,for Stalker it is voyeuristically Routine
Age only 20,gender-female,status-a student at AIIMS Delhi,aim-to better her status in life by working harder than before she tried entrance exams for MBBS all over the country,but her flight is tried to be cut short by a Stalker,something he and his friend at Punjab University,Chandigarh were used to while studying for pre med exams.The guys threatened her, passed sexist remarks,clicked her obscene pictures with the intent to outrage her modesty,20 years old girl did not share problems with anyone as the accused had threatened that she would face dire consequences if she complained against them with anyone. Believe me the girls getting into AIIMS are Not worldly wise as they are too self absorbed in their studies, they are as vulnerable as any newcomer from a rural area to a big vast city. I feel happy for her that she Had the Support of her Family,the family did not Blame her for trying to be shining brighter than the others,The Family shared her Success-so far that she has got admitted to the Best Medical College,she had people to share her Joy, therefore went to the Police to complain about the Stalker, and Police did their Job in looking into the matter,the accused was arrested from the hostel where he had been living for years and only God knows how many Girls had been his victims,but could not confide to the family tp approach the authorities. Age 20 is too young to handle matters singlehandedly,isn’t it? Suneera charitable centre for health and education of Women salutes the Family of the victimised Girl,for Believing her.
Give a Plant sapling to each child,as a Return Gift on Birthday of your Child.
If there are 20 kids in the party,there will be 20 return gifts,and each child will plant a sapling in his/her home,we will have 20 tiny plants in 20 different homes,now made eco friendly ,by you and your child ,along with an Awareness generated in your child and his friends ,about Merits of a Green home. Green home ,not only looks Beautiful, it is Cool, it Uses up less Electricity ,and keeps Lungs healthy by giving more Oxygen ,and absorbing all the carbon dioxide in and around the home. Plants ask you for nothing in return ,except just some life giving Water. Some varieties of plants that can be Gift Wrapped ,to take away to home ,without getting spoiled on the way to home ,by kids… A twig of Money plant ,preferably with a root hanging ,that can get rooted ,as soon as it gets the small vase with a little earth ! Plant shoot of Song of India plant ,it is rough ,it is tough ,straight and it can be planted ,directly without any fuss, after a few days of acclimatization ,it stars to grow rapidly ,even in direct sunlight and a plant gives out many shoots to re plant in other pots. Kiss me quick is another tough plant ,that can sustain in desert conditions ,like other cacti ,but gives additional beauty to our homes. On World Environment Day- One Plant to Each Child ,the best Return Gift you can give on the the Birthday of your Child ,may be Worth repeating Year after Year.
Letter to Confused itimer,to Abort or not Female fetus
Dear itimer, You seem to be Educated enough to Write Blogs for itimes.com,but like Many Educated Women of Our Country Do Not Have a Mind of your Own. Yes Women rightly Get confused at your age,with lots of Pressures but No Guidance..Everything is Dreamy,Filmy,or TV oriented Yearning for Perfection Everywhere, and not Aware of Uncertainties of Life. As a co itimer it is My duty to Tell you what will happen if you Do,and what will happen if You Do Not. Presuming you go ahead with Selective MTP,to get rid of Female Fetus. The Medicines are used to Induce Artificial labor Pains ( I Suppose You have Not Yet felt Real Labor Pains )..Medicines are called Prostaglandins,given by drip,By injections and by other Routes where mucosal lining can Absorb the medicine..Go to Google, and look for Side effects of this Medicines, we give to Augment Labor, to Lessen the Time of Labor Process till the Healthy Baby comes along, or May be After delivery,to Reduce Post delivery Bleeding…. If this medicine is Misused by giving 100 times the Dose,it Shows its Anger..woman gets high Fever,Confusing the Dr. about Any infections,post Delivery/MTP. It Leads to Asthma type Condition called COPD, Irreversible Damage to Lungs,where Balloon like tiny Spaces to Hold Life giving Oxygen,get Fibrosed,Means they loose Elasticity..So woman gets a Wheeze, unexplained Asthma type of Symptoms…and Well Meaning Relatives may Even give her Anti TB treatment without Consulting a Dr. as syptoms are So Obvious-fever along with Wheeze…Inlaws HAVE TO BE LEARNED LOT.WHO CAN CHALLENGE THEM? !ST TIME ,THEN NEXT…IT goes on and on till a male arrives. 1,2,3…9 MTPs till the Blessed Male Comes along.. By Now mother gets other illnesses….Multiple.gall stones,Detected by a chance_ultrasound_relatives are not prepared to take woman to a Dr. for Unexplained abdominal pains.. Surgery for gall stones at the age 30 plus..besides other miseries and no brightness.. Supposing you Take the Decision to carry on…it is going to be shockingly Lonely Battle. Your Daughter(S) will be the Only Family, in our fake Family Oriented,great India..Own Father of the suffering woman will Shun her,Taunt y her about being a Bad role Model,by Walking away minus Alimony, and the husband was Right by being Macho ,to Remarry Minus the messy Legal Divorce..Supposing his Only Daughter in law Walks out and Asks for tons of Money, His money along with money of his only womaniser,Flaunty Son.. Bhartiya Naari only Sister will be Too happy for Her Inheritance gone Up,by Deleting 1 out of 3. Your Brother will be Ready with Property papers, you have to sign as soon as your father pops off…this is the Day only son has Wasted 20 precious years of his life, Making his family life Look upto Inheritance, did not have time to teach his Only son the Virtue of Hard Work..His only son will Repeat History,by looking up to Inheritance, Not hard work to Generate Wealth.. Why regret having Such Relatives..it is Better to have No Relatives..Being a Loner Helps… Only Security is your Hard Earned degree and the Job it will get along with Goodwill of Plenty of people out there in the Vast world.. Your Daughters are the only Family, Nurture Them minus a Motive.. Think about all aspects and Good Luck..and Make sure… There is No looking Back and No Regrets..howsoever Difficult Hurdles become…Get Moving..go with the Call of inner Self..